UR FIRST LOVE.....GALS N GUYS..U WANNA SHARE?

[Poison]

I wasn't talking about religion, but more of your local laws, whether that be federal, provincial, or what, I don't know

No problem in my country either.

[boy_interrupted]

My love-story has extremely Veer-Zaara-esque connotations. In the winter of 2006, I fell (serendipititiously) in love with one of my closest friends. I am from India and am a Hindu and she is from Pakistan and is a Muslim. As friends, I could say anything to her, but as a boyfriend an impervious awkwardness manifested itself. On top of that, her friends never approved of me (I am a Gemini...if that's explanation enough) since they had their high-fiving-pretty-boy boyfriends. Things just fell apart. We broke up amicably, though.

[kjle]

I feel that these days, trust is more of an important commitment than sex. If that makes sense, im not saying our bodies are free, but sex can be beautiful even if a couple is not married. Waiting for sex wont mean as much as a truly trusting, clear communicating relationship.

In my opinion, i dont believe in love, unless it is shared between a parent and a child. I dunno, maybe im negative? or overcautious? but love needs respect and trust, and i find it a great risk to be able to trust someone to the extent as relying on one another- as i see my parents' relationship. Husband and wife are a team, unfortunately a lot of ppl do not respect this sanctity and commitment.

I have had a sweetheart yes, at the age of thirteen, it was a great feeling, but no i cannot call it love.

As for religions and beliefs i would also regard someone who readily gives up their religion as flaky? but sometimes people are born into a religion and are not very religious so in that case such things do not form boundaries for them. But to try and make a family with two different belief systems or even cultures would become a problem, especially when children enter the scene!!

hmm an interesting thread

I would have to disagree with you, I don't know if it's love but I think it is. I've been committed to the same girl since I met her at the age of 14. I have not been able to truly think about someone else in that way since her. I just feel like it's supposed to be this way, and it's nothing to do with what I've done.

So yes, of course, I believe in love. I also love some friends a lot. And I know that it's love, in a different definition of the word though.

[nugget]

I believe in love but not being "in love" . I love my friends and my family too, im not some heartless weirdo :S i believe in love and respect in that sense,

[sachin]

a)wat was ur age when u fall in love?
19 years old.

b)how it happened?
She was in my college. I was having affection towards her from day 1 of my degree college. For 2 years we ven't talked each with other. In final year we came in same specialization subject SURPRISINGLY. Our friendship gradually started taking over our minds. Her talent specialy tok over my heart.

c)who was he/she?classfellow,neighbour?or any1 else?
My classmate, Name FATIMA.

d)was it succesful or not?
You mean we become a lover or not? We have different religion, thus we can't work it out. She is Muslim(Belongs to Islam) and I m Hindu. However we do know that we love each other. She told me once that If we would belong to same religion, then you would be my dream boy.
Same for me but not insisted on Religion.
So After nearly 1and1/2 year we decided to stay apart, and not to call each other; As that might hurt our families.
Still I fill Love deep in my Heart, and Nobody can take her place at that level.

[Linn]

Sachin that is so nice
sorry to hear it cant work, You are smart to just let it go.

[Why,Why not]

Hey yalls.

A) What was your age when you fell in love?
13, about a month ago, oh and ya im 13 , and i am of male gender.

B) How it happened?
Well to tell you the truth, I don't love her back at all, although i like her.
at first she kept joking around and saying to every boy that passed by, " I love you", and it was quite funny. but now im the only target and it is escalating. its gone from cuty pie to you have a nice (Insert slang for donkey).

C) who was she?
she's a scottish exchange student, who is a few years ahead of me.

D)was it succesful or not?
Well, uh..... no, but she keeps bothering me. I don't want to be mean to her but it can't work out because: She is two years older, shes not very good looking, and i know that looks aren't everything, and next year im going to a different school. Not to mention she lives in scotland. oh yes and she is also very evil. she stuffed my friends 50 dollar Bluejays hat down a toilet in the girls washroom, and she won't pay him back for it.

[sachin]

May be you are confused.......... and failed to understand her..

[sachin]

Sachin that is so nice
sorry to hear it cant work, You are smart to just let it go.

Linn...... Thanx

[nugget]

All these stories are beautiful. I guess you need to open up your heart to love...
Rather you love and be hurt rather than not to love at all?

[shirley mcnaught]

m a muslim n all laws whether religious or any other laws allow me to marry my cousin:)

[kjle]

Hey yalls.

A) What was your age when you fell in love?
13, about a month ago, oh and ya im 13 , and i am of male gender.

B) How it happened?
Well to tell you the truth, I don't love her back at all, although i like her.
at first she kept joking around and saying to every boy that passed by, " I love you", and it was quite funny. but now im the only target and it is escalating. its gone from cuty pie to you have a nice (Insert slang for donkey).

C) who was she?
she's a scottish exchange student, who is a few years ahead of me.

D)was it succesful or not?
Well, uh..... no, but she keeps bothering me. I don't want to be mean to her but it can't work out because: She is two years older, shes not very good looking, and i know that looks aren't everything, and next year im going to a different school. Not to mention she lives in scotland. oh yes and she is also very evil. she stuffed my friends 50 dollar Bluejays hat down a toilet in the girls washroom, and she won't pay him back for it.

hmm, well sounds more like some creepy stalker than "love" to me, but hey, what do I know? Umm ya, prolly just ignore her, or try to, she's just trying to get any attention she can. She started off with everyone, and not everyone gave her attention, but you did, so she focused on you. She'd probably quit if you don't acknowledge her.


P.S. Nice to see another BC boy here. WOO!! Go BC!

k i'm done