UR FIRST LOVE.....GALS N GUYS..U WANNA SHARE?

[Dr.Stein]

sorry doc!
u know probably 2moro is eid here. we'll see 2nite. if not than its on the next day.

Yes, 'Ied could be Monday or Tuesday. We experience a problem too to determine 1 Syawal. We visit an expert from Middle East to help us solve the problem. I don't care when as long as not Friday or Saturday!

[jnkdna]

2moro is eid here!! yey!

[Dr.Stein]

So you celebrate Eid in Monday? Same here

Eid Mubarok, Dana!
Minal aidin wal faidzin.
Taqaballahu minna wa minkum.

...and for all muslims here too!

[shirley mcnaught]

i fell in love at the age of 20 ie: now:)...he is my cousin n we r engaed...n it is successful...when we were engaged i dint love him i only liked him but as time passed we became the best of friends...n he is the best man anyone can dream of:)

[loveangel]

was he your third degree cousin?

[shirley mcnaught]

no he is my mothers sisters son

[loveangel]

you know,when it comes to that, i am confused to it... i even cannot remember the names of all my cousins.

[kjle]

and that's legal...marrying your cousin?

I'm sorry but that's not right...in my eyes

[shirley mcnaught]

in our religion it is allowed:)

[Dr.Stein]

What's your religion?

[kjle]

I wasn't talking about religion, but more of your local laws, whether that be federal, provincial, or what, I don't know

[nugget]

However, are you sure it is a "love"? Much people can distinguish between "love" and "lust". They lost their logics when they are falling in love. At the end, when they got broken heart, they will say bad things. That's not good. It feels like you fly high and then you just realized you don't bring your parachute. Soon or later you will get hurt to get bumped on the Earth.

To quote comedian Chris Rock, "If you're waiting 12 months to have sex, then it's love."

My answer, I don't know but when the rewards are so enormous, I can't help but take the chance.

Yeah, that would make a great tagline for some casino.

I feel that these days, trust is more of an important commitment than sex. If that makes sense, im not saying our bodies are free, but sex can be beautiful even if a couple is not married. Waiting for sex wont mean as much as a truly trusting, clear communicating relationship.

In my opinion, i dont believe in love, unless it is shared between a parent and a child. I dunno, maybe im negative? or overcautious? but love needs respect and trust, and i find it a great risk to be able to trust someone to the extent as relying on one another- as i see my parents' relationship. Husband and wife are a team, unfortunately a lot of ppl do not respect this sanctity and commitment.

I have had a sweetheart yes, at the age of thirteen, it was a great feeling, but no i cannot call it love.

As for religions and beliefs i would also regard someone who readily gives up their religion as flaky? but sometimes people are born into a religion and are not very religious so in that case such things do not form boundaries for them. But to try and make a family with two different belief systems or even cultures would become a problem, especially when children enter the scene!!

hmm an interesting thread